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Jan 18Liked by Jordan Yanowitz

Nice piece. How do you think about self-love? Your definition of love is big on how we relate to systems and objects outside the self, so Iā€™m curious how love for the self fits into that framework, if at all. Would we be better off just calling self-love something else entirely?

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First of all, I can't not read "dear reader" in the Lady Whistledown voice (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bs9r1UbmFAI&t=6s). Very comforting.

I think defining love may be useful in terms of understanding ourselves and our world, but I don't think that an individual can ever really define their love for other things, and certainly not their love for other people (or pets šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø). It's just something we feel, and we can examine its impact on ourselves and our society (ecology?) to try to glean some understanding of ~it~.

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